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A place for couples dealing with illness to find resources and advice, hear stories, and discover support. Whether the illness is chronic or acute, the result of disease or accident, couples can learn strategies for coping with the changes illness brings into our relationships and our worlds. The information provided in this blog is for educational and support purposes only. It should not be used as a substitute for seeking professional care.
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About Me
- Barbara Kivowitz
- United States
- In November, 1999 I was whacked with a mysterious chronic pain syndrome that took me out of my life. With the help of my husband, my dog, and a combination of western and alternative approaches, I have a new life that includes working, writing, mountain climbing, smiling, and managing pain. I learned a lot along the way, especially about illness and the couple relationship. I'm also a psychotherapist, a business consultant, and have written a book about couples and illness, which will be re-released 6/12/18: Love in the Time of Chronic Illness - How to Fight the Sickness, Not Each Other
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- A Chronic Dose
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“Illness is the night-side of life, a more onerous citizenship. Everyone who is born holds dual citizenship, in the kingdom of the well and in the kingdom of the sick. Although we all prefer to use only the good passport, sooner or later each of us is obliged, at least for a spell, to identify ourselves as citizens of that other place.”
Susan Sontag
Susan Sontag
1 comment:
Thank you so much for this blog! My husband is my caretaker, and I often worry so much about the impact my heart and migraine problems are causing him. I hope to share this with him and I hope that he can take some comfort from it. He's always been in it with me and he's so brave. Thank you so much!
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